The Necessities of Life

Congratulations! You have been selected to be one of the lucky females to stand by your friend's side on the happiest day of her life! This is one of the most important duties you will ever have to fulfill in your life. A bridesmaid is a special human being, and you have been chosen by the bride-to-be to help her go through this amazing, yet stressful, journey of her life. With this being said, you have ultimately agreed that no matter what happens, no matter how crazy the bride may get, you have certain obligations to abide by. First of all, you are not the one getting married- she is! Your most important task is to put all of your selfishness aside and be there for your friend. The last thing you want is to have an upset bride because she does not feel as special as she should be feeling, just because you do not like something she has planned. You have to be supportive, regardless if you agree with the outcome or not. This rule is most important when dress shopping takes place....

When you are in love with someone, there are many different phases that you will encounter along the way. At first, it is innocent puppy love. The relationship is brand new, just coming out of the package. You treat it with care because it is so delicate. As time moves on, you begin to grow emotionally and physically with one another. You begin to feel such strong connections, and you fall in love. There are some points in which you begin to encounter disagreements and you argue a lot, but that does not make you fall out of love any less. No matter how many disagreements you will have, the love you share only grows stronger. Suddenly, many months have passed from the start of your relationship to where you are now. You both have changed, and you both are growing continuously. The intimacy becomes stronger and stronger. You both adapt well into your families, and you now begin to develop a clear insight into what you want in your future. You are so in love, but eventually, things begin...