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it will be okay.

 In your life, you are going to experience  moments of absolute loss of control and loss of humanity. When this happens, you have to remind yourself that it is not your fault. Something happened to you that is out of your control, and you have to set away the blame on yourself. The world can be a cruel place, and I do not think it is ever going to change anytime soon. Remember that you have people who love you and support you no matter what, and they are always going to be by your side throughout these hardships. 


I know you feel like someone took something so sacred away from you, and that fire that once burned your soul has been blown out, and there is no way of getting back right now. You have the capability to try and fight for your life through this hardship, but it is also okay if you do not want to right now. You are allowed to be sad, you have to allow yourself to feel everything that you are feeling. 


No matter what happens, and no matter what the end results are, the sun will come back out eventually. You do not need any man or woman, you are the one who is control. You are going to get through this, and you are going to come back stronger. Allow yourself to feel everything that you are feeling now, and remember to stop putting the blame on yourself. You will get through this, I promise. 

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