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Don't Sugar Coat it- Life Sucks Sometimes.

 There tend to be a lot of unfortunate events that happen to people at the wrong time. There is a lot to be said about those who have unfortunate situations happen to them, and most of the time, they are innocent people who never deserved it in the first place. We lose people every day, but there comes the point where things can mislead us into the depths of the unknown. Nothing in life is ever fair. If it was, we would all be wearing diamonds right now, but we aren't. 

The many people that came before us had to work towards something to achieve something more significant. They had to work tirelessly because they could not afford to live comfortably. They experienced highs and lows, but they always came out on top after they suffered those low points in their life. 

Even the kindest souls on earth struggle because that is what we should do. We have to face these lows because we have to learn how to accept life for how it really is. We have to learn to make our own decisions, suffer consequences and adapt to living after loved ones are gone because one day, we are all not going to be here anymore. Life is not fair, but we have to keep going. 

You are allowed to struggle, feel sad, and feel joy, but you cannot let those moments of sadness and struggle to tear you up and rip you to shreds every time you feel that way. You have to stand up and look fear in the face, fight those battles coming towards you head-on, and live as if there is nothing else worth wanting to do because we cannot let the evil win. As humans, we are capable of so much more than we realize. If we do not like something or feel upset, we must change the environment we surround ourselves with. The struggle is worth all the reward in the end, you just have to keep pushing forward. 

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